loving anyone in our times is scary

After what i have experience merely loving anyone is just scary. You may be wondering how? Well here i will break it down for you. LOVE STIRS UP EXISTENTIAL FEARS. The more we have , the more someone means to us, the more afraid we are of losing that person. Love makes us feel vulnerable. 

a new relation will make you feel like you are in heaven, although i have never been there surely heaven is probably the best place one can be. i tell you a new relationship is uncharted territory and most of us, we have natural fear of the unknown. Letting our self fall in love means taking a real risk. when we realize that we are in love  we begin to harbor defenses that we may believe on some level will protect us from getting hurt. 

21st century love is just scarier.... if you are in Love then you are in love alone. the relationship that you are in is just fiction in your your head, it does not exist ... and if it does exist it is one sided. which is very sad, i mean what happen to the great love of all times were two loving couples in a relationship are goal orientated. What happened to team work, what happened to dreaming together? 

What happened to love?

loving someone in our times is scary because love has been replaced by lust. love in the 21st century is the facial beauty, our latest love is more of buying faces, buying body feature i mean the big buttocks, big breast , small weist, money, i mean nawadays love is just complicated if you dont have anything to offer then forget about love.. because love is dead they have killed with the hearts desire sadly💔